Both dream means the same thing.
It's called " stolen/manipulated virtue,grace, heavens and honour".
The lord referred you to the book of...and it says :
â—„ Mark 3:24 â–º
If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand.
I can see that you really love your husband and always want to be around him but, it's seems the love/unity of this marriage hasn't been intact hence, the enemies has found their way in manipulated your blessing,heavens and heavens of grace/virtue.
Hence, dishonoured, disrespected ,ignored, rejected or manipulated in your second dream.
Solution?
1. There is need for harmony in this marriage.
2. Forgiveness, repentance from both side.
3. Love.
4. Doing together.
5. Pray and pray for restoration of virtue, heavens of grace/virtue and honour- with psalm 119, isaiah60, and psalm 1,19. With fasting.
Bless u