1. Yes, she's not love, hence she's been denied her right in this, in her place of work.
But note, this is for your safety as the lord also permit this to preserve your life. As there are enemies of progress in this place, once they see you progress they go after your life/health: physically/spiritual.
Would you rather be safe,be alive than have these and stay unsafe spiritually,physically?
In essence, the lord assured that with your eyes you shall see the weeping,lamentation, whinning and attack of these ones who seems to be having good in your place of work- which would be your portion as well if the lord has permitted. Be he wouldn't to preserve your life and keep you on the safe side. Shouldn't you be thankful then, that the lord cares about your safely and life? Indeed, you've been told of these and the hatred being perpetrated among your colleagues, spiritually/physically.
Now, hear this, the lord said, many of these progressive one shall lament and weep, cry for help' for they shall be inflicted' and you shall come to their rescue and rewarded for that.
But, pray, your harvest is full and not un ripe so that you can have these blessing full while it comes and truly, the lord will reward you good deep and bless you. But remind God you don't want half blessing.
Perhaps, this is how you want your blessing? But you can ask for something better, break barriers. The lord is here about/will reward you.
2. Not all that glitters is gold.
Husband must learn to listen to her wife once in a while and take into consideration her suggestion. Remember? A three doesn't make a forest.
In essence, learn to always consider your wife and ideas and have this at the back of your mind, some help/offer are harmful, not all that glitters is gold and lastly? When help is render always, seek God first and find the source and be assured of the source of income of this person. Infact see God first before you accept lest you are trap. Be quick to listen, slow to speak. Not all that glitters is gold.
Bless u