Greetings pastor in the name of Jesus
1. I dreamt that my mother was building a very big fancy house. We were there helping or looking, the builders were building at a high speed since they were doing the different things at the same time. When I saw the kitchen, they were building the cupboards while the others were tiling and others were painting. When I looked at the house from outside the fence looked tall and had an intricate detail that showed how fancy and expensive it was as it looked like a lot of materials went into it. The other rooms were also big and they were being built. I went into my mother's bedroom and it was so big but it was still incomplete , it had an en-suite but the bathroom door was closed. I noticed that the door looked quite ordinary compared to the house as a whole.
2. I keep dreaming about me giving birth, I've had this same dream over and over. The baby is always a girl, and I'm always surprised that I had been pregnant. I always give birth naturally although I've had c-section three times. It's always a different variation of this scenario.
3. I dreamt that I saw an old friend, like she came to see me as she was in town for business. She gave me a hug, first it was the awkward kind where the faces touch when you are not sure where the other will put their head. Then we hugged again and this time it was a proper long hug full of warmth and love. I woke pretty happy. (I have not seen this friend in over 5 years now, although I see her whatsapp statuses. The last time I went to her city I asked to see her she refused, saying they were celebrating her son's birthday, so I let it go. But in my heart I always wish I could see her again.)
4. I don't remember much of this dream. I was somewhere and the husband of my friend in dream 3 above was in town and he said he would come and see me (I am friends with both of them) and I said OK. Then I saw him coming towards my place (like I was looking through a large window) and he was with two or three other men. He was dressed in expensive looking clothes but strangely enough he was drunk, walking in a strange drunken way. I thought why is he drunk but I thought I would ask him when he arrived. But only his companions arrived, and he never did. I thought maybe he was ashamed that he was drunk that's why he didn't want to see me. (both him and his wife are born again that's why I found it strange that he was drunk).
5. I dreamt that I was at my ex's house, and I was getting ready to do some house work or so. But I was in the basement that had a floor that was not sealed and was full of dust on the floor and there were other stuff lying around. My ex came and said I can come up to the main house. When I got to the kitchen I was busy preparing chicken or so to cook. I had a pot and everything in front of me. There was a young child in the house, maybe about six years old. Then a baby started crying in another room and my ex went and got the baby and he said he doesn't live with the baby, like he was justifying why he's giving the baby more attention. He looked very serious on his face and took the baby to another room, I thought to change the nappy or something.
6. I dreamt that I was wearing a jean and was working at a company like construction company and I was a labourer. Other workers were mostly men and they were wearing blue overalls. I thought maybe I should have gotten overalls too but I thought the jeans will also be fine. Then after some time I was told that the contract had ended and I found myself desperate for a job as I had no money saved and I had bills to pay. My friend was there and she was encouraging me and telling me we need to pray and she would pray with me. She was also telling me that I need to apply for other jobs and also we saw my manager (it was a guy who used to be my supervisor when I started working), we asked him if they can renew my contract and he said he tried but the HR refused. I wondered why I had taken a contract job, although I was hoping they would renew it. We organised with my friend to go to a boardroom and pray there. On the way I was saying in my heart Lord remember the people I have prayed for and they got jobs, remember me too.
7. I dreamt that I was with my mother, I think my sister was also there, also my ex's sister, and his other relatives. It was like they came for a funeral and we were all in one room. My ex was there and going away for work and his sister was getting money from him for her to go home at the end of the day. She came along for three days or so, abs each time she would call him and ask him to send her money for transport and he would send it. I saw myself standing in front and a mirror, getting dressed in a black and white dress and the dress fitted me very well. I opened the wardrobe and took out a black blazer and put it on top of the dress. My ex's sister was standing there looking at me. Then my ex was in the room and he just sat next to me and held my hand and kissed me on the mouth, much to my surprise as his family and mine were there.
Then outside there were lots of people and it was my father's funeral, but he was also alive at another side of the funeral and people were aware of this and they continued with the funeral anyway. They took him toward the cemetery alive although he looked quite sick and couldn't walk. I don't remember what they did with him. In essence it was like his body was buried on one side but on the other side he was very sick but not dead he could see all that was going on.
Then it was like were in a room at my mother's house with my ex, and he came on to me and we slept together. After this we remained under the blanket and my husband walked in and said nothing, he sat on a very small children's chair. I felt bad that we had done this with my ex especially since I am still married, but I didn't move from the bed. Then my ex was asking me if I thought I could be pregnant, I said no I don't think so. He said I can't fall pregnant, and said I need to get plan b pills to prevent pregnancy. After I left the room I was thinking about what if I fall pregnant, and thought about where I could get plan B. Then I was at my ex's work place with our son. I got to reception and told the receptionist I came to see my ex, (by his name). She got on the phone and called his office, when he answered the lady and him started to argue, and when she put down the phone she was very angry that she was crying. I asked her why she was crying, and she told me that my ex had impregnated her and now he didn't want anything to do with him because he really treated her badly. I was surprised by this news. I don't remember other things.
8. Sunday dream, background: I'm currently looking for a church that is closer to where I live so as to have a proper fellowship with other brethren. The church I attend is quite far and expensive to travel to such that I can only go there once a month. So I feel really cut out as I don't know many of the things happening there, can't attend midweek services and such am not in fellowship in the real sense of the word. Not to say I would leave the church, but somewhere I could go during the other 3 weeks. I met a lady who gave me details of her church, so I thought I would go and check it out, but asked the Lord to show me if this was a bad place to go or not.
To the dream:
I walked into the church, almost empty as I was early. There was a guy with a microphone, singing a song with instrument accompaniment. The song did not sound familiar to me so I was not singing but rather doing something with my hands, maybe picking my nails I can't remember. Then after some time more people came in and they wee ladies and were wearing skirts, and when they walked in they kneeled down and they all started praying. The whole church was praying. Then someone was at the pulpit reading the word.
Thank you sir
