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what do you do when you live with someone that has the Spirit of self pity
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I live with someone who is always wallowing in self pity. The annoying thing is that this person always wants to drag me down with her. Everytime I finish talking to her my faith dwindles. It's like I am her major target because she is always complaining about the problems of life. When you are done talking to her you feel like God is non existent. She exudes faithlessness and doubt just like Thomas in the Bible. I cannot get away from her because I live with her and she is family and I cannot shut her up when she starts nagging. Please advice me on what to do. It has become so rampant that I feel the enemy is channeling her to get me low spiritually. Thanks in advance.
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I live with someone who is always wallowing in self pity. The annoying thing is that this person always wants to drag me down with her. Every time I finish talking to her my faith dwindles. It's like I am her major target because she is always complaining about the problems of life. When you are done talking to her you feel like God is non existent. She exudes faithlessness and doubt just like Thomas in the Bible. I cannot get away from her because I live with her and she is family and I cannot shut her up when she starts nagging. Please advice me on what to do. It has become so rampant that I feel the enemy is channeling her to get me low spiritually. Thanks in advance.


Answers :

• Heaven helps those who help themselves.

That is, if she's not ready to open her heart for change its like hitting a rock. You are only wasting your time.

• You can't change a man who's not willing and ready for a change. That is, change starts from within in that case if she's made up her mind not to you are wasting your time.


• Foundation : your mind set. If within her she's built a foundation of hopelessness, helplessness, and lack of faith you can't uproot it because the mind of man is very powerful and it's where great things or fall of man originated from.


• Those who've fall have what it takes to pull you down except you are both on the ground.
Meaning, looking at the bolded it's better to run for safety.


Solution, your ask? ;

•Remember the devil workshop is the mind/hand that is lazy. Therefore, get busy.


• You knew she's robbing you off you faith and dragging you down and still choose to help her Up? You will fall soon, down at the ground along with her if you don't flee.


• Let her be ; she's the devil workshop hence I see the devil using her already to rob you off your faith and pull you down--looking at the bolded above, ofcourse.

• You shall know the truth and it shall set you free! You've found she's pulling you down and would do anything to bring you down to her level? You know the truth already, so why not free yourself NOW! Because it's too late?

• Remember, whatever good you do for people that rob or brings you down? It's not worth it, flee.




Bless u


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Thank you very much sir, you have answered my question. God bless you and this great ministry in Jesus name